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For a moment · 8 affirmations

Affirmations before a doctor appointment

For the waiting room, and the wait for results.

Waiting rooms make time strange. You have rehearsed both the reassuring version and the frightening one, and neither is information yet. These lines are for holding the not-knowing without letting it run the whole day.

8 lines for this moment

  1. 01

    I do not have to feel calm to go through with this.

  2. 02

    Not knowing is uncomfortable, and I can sit with uncomfortable.

  3. 03

    Whatever they tell me, knowing gives me something to work with.

  4. 04

    I can ask them to repeat it, or write it down.

  5. 05

    My worry is trying to protect me. It is not a forecast.

  6. 06

    I am allowed to bring someone, or to ask for a minute.

  7. 07

    Today is one appointment, not the whole story.

  8. 08

    I can take this one step at a time, starting with this one.

How to use these

One line, then one small thing.

Read one line while you wait, and write your two most important questions on your phone. Anxiety makes people forget what they came to ask, and leaving without asking is what keeps the loop running afterwards.

When it helps

Moments these were written for

  • In the waiting room
  • The days between a test and the results
  • After an appointment that raised more questions

FAQ

Questions about this moment

How do I cope while waiting for test results?
Shorten the horizon. Plan what you are doing today and tomorrow, keep some ordinary structure, and give the worry a set time rather than all day. Searching symptoms usually raises the alarm without adding information.
Can affirmations replace medical advice?
No. They help you stay steady enough to attend, ask and listen. Anything about your symptoms, diagnosis or treatment belongs with the clinician in front of you, and urgent symptoms belong with emergency care.

How are you feeling about it?

Affirmations written for the feeling underneath this moment.

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